It can be difficult to vocalize during sex without sounding like a dang moron. In a tweet I will remember forever, a friend of mine described the most regrettable dirty talk he’d ever done, in which he actually told a woman “I’m going to fuck your stupid pussy.” I know! As a favor to sex havers everywhere, I’m going to lay out how to talk dirty in a way that will take sex with your partner to the next level. If the initiation of dirty talk goes well, then the next issue that comes up is, well, what to say.
How can I feel less awkward talking dirty?
- Hiding you or your partner’s face behind a mask may help relieve shyness, or add an air of erotic mystery while dictating exactly what you want each other to do.
- As with many sexual activities, exploration (and sometimes straight-up trial and error) can teach us things about ourselves that we never would have expected.
- Sussing out the other person’s parameters going in will ease your mind by knowing in advance what’s okay and what’s not.
- Again, there are a whole lot of words and phrases out there, and some of them are bound to turn you on.
- It turns out that there is a way for any woman to orgasm.
- If you’re embarrassed to talk to your partner about your preferences, try writing everything down in a note and share it with your partner when you’re not face-to-face present with each other.
So, don’t be afraid to adapt and evolve your sexy talk to fit your current partner. Talking dirty can be very helpful in long-distance relationships to keep the intimacy alive. Build some sexual tension by saying sexual things to each other. Or, try engaging in phone sex for added sexual pleasure. If you find yourself at a loss for words, there’s an easy remedy.
Start Sessions Slowly (and PG)
- Many people have never tried talking dirty before, and feel anxious about how to get started.
- But if you like you can also type them on your phone and then show them to him.
- In the meantime, here are some lines that work great over the phone.
- “Begin by using softer, suggestive language to create a comfortable environment and enable you to gauge your partner’s reaction.
- Again, the Just Between Us app can be a great resource for couples who want to start sexting but are nervous about where their photos might end up.
If you prefer the coy whispers and delicate innuendo of a Regency-era drama, be my guest. Just make sure that whatever you’re doing, your partner(s) are on board. Here are some helpful tips—with crowdsourced anecdotes from myself and friends—to make sure your “dirty talk” doesn’t leave someone with a foot in their mouth (unless that’s the goal). Create space outside of any sexual activity for reflection. Conjuring material for dirty talk won’t feel so daunting if you spend time thinking and talking about sex beyond the heat of the moment. When we’re actively having sex, Dr. Jansen says, “our minds tend to choose a path of least resistance” and fall back on the phrases we’ve been repeating for years as the quickest way to reach orgasm during sex.
Builds Sexual Tension
To take things to the next level, individuals could also experiment with power dynamic play. For those trying it out for the first time, you can experiment with the dynamic that suits them. However, for more advanced people, there could be a role reversal of dominant and submissive dynamics or even a power dynamic shift during the encounter. “When learning to walk, we fall over, again and again and again, until eventually walking is easy. Sex is a skill and when we start any skill, we get things wrong, and that’s ok! So if the thought of it makes you cringe but you’d still like to give it a try, we’ve got you—here’s a beginner’s guide to dirty talk.
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A more utilitarian usage of dirty talk is to let your partner know your orgasmic status. If you’re not going to have an orgasm with your partner, you can let them know when you’re ready for them to stop. Once you’re fully feeling it, don’t be afraid to let your partner know what you want.
With a little practice, you can soon be amping up the intimacy and passion in the bedroom by talking dirty with your partner. Dirty talk may feel strange at first as you pick your brain for the perfect dirty things to say to your partner. Relax a little—talking dirty isn’t an exact science, and navigating it relies more on how comfortable you are versus how much you know about it. Here’s how to talk dirty during sex, plus sexy things to say to your partner outside the bedroom to build excitement. Talking dirty is hot in and of itself, and it’s also great for your sex life. It helps you stay more present in the moment, and more tuned in to what you’re experiencing.
Begin by describing how your partner makes you feel—just verbalizing the fact that they’re turning you on is a great start. Like anything worth doing, it usually takes a bit of practice. For many people, the thought of talking dirty during sex before sex or after sex can be as scary as the sex itself. Need inspiration for dirty phrases and sexting for your long-distance relationship?